Secret Agent: If You’re Easily Offended, You’re Easily Manipulated! This 1 Trick Catches A Lie In 2s
秘密探員：越容易被激怒，就越容易被操控！用一招兩秒內識別謊言。
Secret Agent: If You’re Easily Offended, You’re Easily Manipulated! This 1 Trick Catches A Lie In 2s - YouTube
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if I'm easily offended I'm easily manipulated so if you are that person where you are reactive reactive reactive
假如我很容易被激怒，我就更容易被操控。假如你是那種對別人的言行舉止一天到晚做出反應的人。
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rule number one shut the up cuz if you're looking to be respected you need to manage yourself but there are times
準則一、閉上你的嘴。如果你想被人尊重，你必須管好你自己。
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that people are going to cross you and disrespect you well how do you deal with it so there is a guy post it's talked to the intelligence communities and it
但總有時候，人們會挑戰你、藐視你。那麼，你怎麼解決它？有人在情報社群發表了他的言論。
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really really helps when you're dealing with people and so one of the ways you deal with that kind of behavior is every
當你在和他人互動時，它真的幫了大忙。其中一個，應對那種行為的方法就是……
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the former secret service agent turned human behavior expert from protecting presidents to interrogating the world's most dangerous men she now teaches
伊芙‧波普拉斯—前特勤局特務，現為人類行為專家。從保護總統，到審問世界上最危險的一群人。
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people how to develop mental strength and persuasive communication skills how did they train you as a secret service agent to have that strong mental
現在，她教導人們如何強化他們的心理韌性，和有說服力的溝通技巧。他們是怎麼訓練你的，如何讓一名特工建立起強大的心理基礎？
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Foundation that you have there's a lot of things so first one of the biggest things that holds people back is the idea that I'm special you're not that
有很多方式。首先，有個阻礙人們前進的最大因素之一，是人們覺得自己很特別的想法，但你並沒有那麼特別。
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special for example I was one of the First Responders out 9/11 I watched thousands of people die and one of the
舉個例子來說，911發生的時候，我是其中的先遣急救員之一，目睹了數以千計的人們死去。
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things that got me through it was understanding I wasn't alone in it and when you learned that you can get through anything when you tell yourself
其中一個讓我能繼續前行的原因，是了解到自己並不是獨自一人被困在那裏。當你認知到這件事，你可以面對任何事情。
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nobody knows what I'm going through nobody can help you cuz it's just you going through it now the next thing
當你告訴自己，沒有人知道我正經歷什麼。沒有人可以幫你，因為你自己沉溺在裡面。
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what's most important is this tool that we don't pay attention to our body and there's this study where they started
再來，下一件事，有個最重要但我們卻忽視它的工具，我們的身體。
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recording people walking then they laid it to convicted felons and they said to them who would you pick as prey they all
這裡有個研究，他們將人們走路的姿態錄下，並且播放給已被定罪的重罪犯們觀看，他們請犯人們選出自己會想下手的目標。
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picked the same people they were so there are simple things you can do with your hands your voice how you sit and I
結果全部的犯人都選了相同的人們，他們……有些簡單的事，你可以靠你的手、你的聲音、你的坐姿做到。
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will tell you everything but also the other thing that's actually interesting which you didn't ask but I will volunteer this information are the
而且我會告訴你所有的事情，還有那些雖然你沒問，但真的很有趣的事，我將自願提供這些資訊。
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strategies to tell if somebody's being truthful or not and it's that's Li detection 101 this has always blown my mind a little
像是，判斷一個人是否坦誠的策略。這是偵測謊言的技巧入門！
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